Friday, 2 January 2009

Keep Your Priorities Straight

The most important thing in your life has taken over and sex isn’t it. You may take 4 weeks to 4 years to get back into bed with your partner and as long as you are both content to wait then there is nothing wrong with either extreme or somewhere in the middle. There is also the possibility that you have built up this into a far bigger issue than it needs to be. At some point to quote Tom Butler-Bowdon ‘Feel the fear and do it anyway.

Make sure you are doing what you want, make sure you are happy to and then consider what you and your partner need.

A healthy sex life is good for your relationship and will remind you of life other than the baby.

Start slow, communicate and ensure your partner knows how you feel about it. He/she hasn't been through what you have and so you both know that.

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