Friday, 2 January 2009

What Puts You Off

With most exercise, you can put off sex because lots of little things get in the way. We’ve looked at your feelings about your own body but you may also be put off his.
Your partners apparent laziness can also be a massive turn off, you think to yourself, if the opportunity arises tonight I’m going in for the kill only to be struck down by him arriving home just in time to miss bath time, putting his coat on a chair, getting undressed in the bath room and leaving his dirty socks on the floor and ‘making a quick sandwich’ while you finish tea and then makes a phenomenal amount of mess while doing it. You think, screw him he can do the sodding washing up after all; I’m not going to seduce the dirty pig. .
He farts, Baby Blues can affect any woman, no matter how much support she is getting and it is nothing to be ashamed of. Naturally if you are feeling depressed then you won’t be thinking about sex, much.

Give yourself and him a break, as silly as it sounds consider booking the time in.

Send a text to say "I want you to kiss me tonight."

I've learnt over the years that I have to tell my partner exactly what I want to ever know I'll get it, be that a birthday cake, a surprise party, a kiss at the weekend or time by myself.

If he is putting you off then tell him. Nicely, which is perhaps saying, I find you most attractive when you notice me.


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