Why Bother with Sex, You’ve Got a baby Now.

Sex should be a passtime you enjoy and feel is worth your while and if he’s lucky your partner will too. So we should preface this all with; don’t let yourself be pressured by anyone, including us into having sex before you are ready. It’s also important that you don’t let this issue become all consuming. In fact it is entirely possible that you should put this book down, go and find something else to read, have you searched through all the books showing you the almost endless possibilities of puréed fruit that are out there for when your tiny weenie bundle of joy starts eating solid food? Or go for a good long walk or better sill get a bar of galaxy and enjoy this as it will release the same level of endorphins sex does without and mess or fear. But if you do want a little of what you fancy but are unsure of what to expect read on. We don’t promise a fully medically approved, answers all your questions, guide because that just isn’t possible. If you feel that this blog doesn’t help then talk to a friend or perhaps join a mums group, through organisations like The NCT (National Childcare Trust) or maybe visit a website like Netmums and see if you can find a few like minded women to talk with about this private but mutually shared worry. What ever you do don’t let the fear or worry of it stop you from having a go. A good sex life shouldn’t disappear completely because you had a baby. Things have changed in your life, for some people their lives are almost unrecognisable so you can sit back and let this change affect everything for better or for worse. You are in control. This book is aimed to give a few common sense ideas to how to get back into the saddle, one too many euphemism and perhaps just that bit of reassurance that you are not alone and just to be sure you can have a bit of a giggle too we have thrown in a few ideas of how you can do it.