When to do it and where - sex that is

You are both in the mood, that coy glance has passed between you the baby is fast asleep, problem is she is lying just next to your partner and is still attached to her breast. You know what, this is common. You’re not an odd or a sick couple because you are finding each other sexually attractive at this moment in time. You have several choices. Ignore your urges, try to roll the baby off and carefully place them in a crib or pram or roll yourselves away and place enough cushions and pillows around so there is no possible way they could, the heat of the moment, find yourselves anywhere dangerous.

Or

The baby is in the same room as you and is fast asleep but you know it won’t take much for him to wake but you shouldn’t let it stop you.

After the advised six months there is something to be said for getting your baby in its own room. You get a bit of your own space back; you can enjoy your own bed and the chance at a less than silent session. But if you can’t bring yourself to move them and the baby is in room you can go in theirs, depending on size or there is the lounge, bathroom, in fact any place where you feel comfortable or perhaps uncomfortable. You may just have the chance of reliving those frantic moments of passion you once had where nowhere was out of bounds. Once more children of various ages come into the equation this will become increasingly difficult so enjoy this freedom while you can.

And dads, as much as ego dictates it won’t be easy for your partner to have an orgasm. She will be feeling anxious about the act and may not be able to emotionally engage when compared to your sex life before the baby. She might come as you do and this moment will be an idyllic reminder of days gone by but don’t be offended if she doesn’t.

you could always get a baby sitter, relative to take the baby for a long walk.